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The Young Woman Who Was The Change She Wanted To See In The World

May 31, 2012 by Giulietta Nardone

I’ve been reading the words of Marina Keegan, a young woman from my hometown who died over the weekend. She had just graduated from Yale and had a writing job waiting for her at The New Yorker. I’ve got one word to describe Marina: phenomenal.

She cared about people, about changing the world, about community, about doing good, about writing from the heart, about living every minute she was alive.

God, we need more people like her. To think there is one less, gets me all choked up. (more…)

Time, Would We Really Want To Save It In A Bottle?

May 22, 2012 by Giulietta Nardone

I’m aware of the swift passage of time. When I was a kid, my mother said to me that life seemed to be going faster and faster with each passing year. She often said, “I don’t know where the time goes.” Now that I’m progressing through life, I understand what she meant. It seemed so slow as a kid, painfully slow at times. Now, it seems ultra fast at times.

March, April and most of May flew by while I worked with others in town to save the Devil’s Den from execution. It’s been mutilated but it’s still with us. In time, erosion will smooth out the gouges left by heavy equipment that didn’t give two hoots about nature.

But as fast as it has gone by, it’s been a terrific three months. I’m surrounded by other folks that care about history and nature. Folks that take time out of their busy lives to do something that matters to them. (more…)

Naked Writing: Strip Off Your Fears And Get On With Your Life

May 6, 2012 by Giulietta Nardone

I love coming up with new titles for my life shops. Sometimes I teach the same one 2 or 3 times. Usually, I change the title and the content to take it and the folks who trust me enough to sign up for it in a different, more daring direction.

It’s a creative act – this need to sculpt new life shops, to push the boundaries for myself and those who come in contact with me. I do the same thing with my karaoke singing. I constantly learn new songs, psychologically harder ones that take my voice to higher and wider voice mountain ranges. Every time I encourage myself to go further into my own unchartered wilderness, I come out on a different vista, with different views and altered perceptions.

Net result: I feel lighter, more naked, more stripped of society’s weight.

We come into this world loving the lightness of being, finding it bearable. Under the guise of making us human that changes. We get to run around free for a few years, then a variety of folks strap real and metaphorical backpacks on us and start handing us the bricks of heaviness (aka fears).

No more perfect example than the children I see weighted down with backpacks going to and from school. Instead of the ball and chain tied to the foot, it’s lashed onto the back.

If you were visiting from another planet and learned that Earth people forced their children to lug these huge packs to school everyday, what would you think about those people? What adults fears get stuffed into those children’s backpacks? A fear of not learning? A fear of not being successful? A fear of not living the ‘good’ life, whatever that is? A fear of learning off-script?

Unfortunately, these heavy loads just get heavier as we get older until sometimes I, you, we can barely stand up.

I know I’ve mentioned this before, but beginning in junior high, I often felt so emotionally heavy I could barely lift my legs up. I’d come out of my class and wade through a hallway of molasses. Every footstep took a Herculean effort. Often, I didn’t think I could make it to class. I wondered if others could see me struggling to move forward.

One of my favorite movies is The Unbearable Lightness of Being. The characters struggle with feelings of lightness and heaviness. When they get too light, they reseek heaviness.

Half the battle to regain lightness is to recognize the true weight of fear. How much do yours weigh?

If you want to get more comfortable with lightness and agility, consider Naked Writing: Strip Off Your Fears and Get On Your With Life. I’m also having the first Naked Writing Contest this summer. Prize $20. Participants need to be subscribers of my museletter.